They Know your Prejudices
Empaths will always know when you have a hidden prejudice.
If you are discomforted by people with different colored skin, sexual orientation, or personality differences, the empath will very likely lose interest. It’s because empaths see people through all the layers and know who we really are deep inside. Labels mean nothing to them!
Empathic people are not interested in people who are shallow or self-absorbed. They don’t respect people who let labels determine how they see other people.
They Know you’re not Fine
“are you okay?”
“yes, I am fine.”
“No, you’re not. Now tell me everything.”
If you have ever had this conversation with a friend, they are more than likely an empath.
Empaths know when you lie, and they also know when you feel bad. Having a friend you can talk to about things is a tremendous help! Take advantage of your friend’s healing abilities and do not lie to them. Don’t be afraid; they want to help.
They Can Read Lackey’s Like a Book
Empaths hate small talk, and they hate sucking up even more.
Don’t falsely compliment an empath to gain their affection. They actually hate this, and they see what you’re doing.
An Empath’s most powerful ability is deciphering people’s actions and intentions. They perceive layers of your psychology that you are not even aware of. So just be honest with them. It’s easier!
They Know When You’re on The Wrong Path
If you have an empathic friend and they are warning you about things you’ve been doing, LISTEN TO THEM.
Empaths are so good at predicting potential destructive behavior it is similar to time travel. They know your subconscious reasoning, they know the outcomes from that and they will tell you if it isn’t worth it.
When an empath is telling you that you are heading for a dark place, you better seriously reevaluate your intentions.
They Know When You’re Trying to be Someone You’re Not
Empaths have the ability to see a personals spirit. They appreciate your perks and your flaws!
There is nothing more attractive to an empath than someone who is their self. When you try to put on an act, they will know.
Be confident in your own skin and don’t try to be someone you’re not. Especially in front of an empath. They fall in love with congruency because they KNOW how rare that is in the world. Congruent person is like a breath of fresh air for them.
They Can Identify Exploitation
Remember when you were a kid and you wanted something, so you would ‘butter up’ your parents to get what you want.
Don’t do this to an empath – they will stop you in your tracks. You are more likely o get what you want by saying it straight up rather than playing nice just to get it.
An empath might let you play your role but they will never give you the thing you are playing your role for. They will circle you around until you are tired playing. It’s funny to them to see how far will you go.