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November, 2017


“Reactive Abuse” They Call You Abusive for Reacting To Their Abuse

A very common aspect of psychological abuse and manipulation is for the abuser to claim that the victim is being abusive towards them. I’ve written about the abusers “victim complex”, and “gaslighting” in this manner before. But right now I want to address the specific scenario in which the victim snaps at the abuser. They endure and endure, they have been told that there is nothing to react to, they have been told they overreact to everything, so they are afraid to mention their hurt, and confusion, and cannot acknowledge they areRead More

Why You Should NEVER Attempt Couples Therapy With A Narcissist

If you’ve been in a romantic relationship (or marriage) with a narcissist, then you’re undoubtedly very familiar with the huge amount of damage they can cause. They’re particularly virulent when paired with empaths, as they develop a really unhealthy codependency, but even an average relationship with a narc can result in a whole load of self-esteem issues, depression, anxiety, and worse. Some people – namely those who have convinced themselves that they love their narcissist partner and want to try to make things work with them – think that attendingRead More

17 Connections Between A Narcissist And Their Victim With Anxiety Disorder

1. A narcissist will make you feel crazy while someone with anxiety already doesn’t trust themselves. A narcissist is never to blame and someone with anxiety will always be the one to apologize. When a victim takes responsibility for unkind actions of a narcissist it feeds into their ego and how much control they have. Someone with anxiety tends to apologize for things they don’t even need to. Someone with anxiety is a narcissist’s easiest prey. 2. A narcissist doesn’t want to change while someone with anxiety constantly tries toRead More

17 Connections Between A Narcissist And Their Victim With Anxiety Disorder

8. A narcissist will pick you apart while someone with anxiety already picks themselves apart and is an easy victim. A narcissist will groom insecurity within its victim to a point where they don’t even have to be the ones tearing them down anymore. They hold you to these unrealistic and unattainable standards that no one can reach. Someone with anxiety tries so hard to be good enough then picks themselves apart and people wonder why don’t they have more confidence. When someone is tearing you down every chance theyRead More

10 Reasons Why Most Men Simple Cannot Handle an Empath

An empath is described as a person who has the ability to fully comprehend other people`s emotions. A woman who loves unconditionally or woman who gives in too much in a relationship, even though she receives little, is an example of an empathetic woman. While dating such woman seems ideal as their personality is associated with perfection, most empaths are still single. Here are some of the reasons why men cannot handle a woman empath: 1. Asking too many questions Most men lead a simple life, without recalling past eventsRead More

Researchers Reveal How Parents Create Narcissistic Children

Although most parents have had nightmares about their children, one nightmare of parenting could easily be producing a narcissistic child who then becomes a narcissistic adult let loose on the world. Parenting a healthy child is all that you want to do, and that includes their mental health and development. Parents rarely act intentionally to harm their child’s future, and more often, they do the very best they can with the skills and knowledge that they have at the time. Knowing that you have good intentions in parenting your child shouldRead More

10+ Cool Tattoos That A Cat Lover Would Go Crazy About

Cute Whiskers, Paws, Cat Portraits… You must check this out. #1 Tiny Cat Tattoo On Finger #2 This Persian Cat Portrait #3 Pusheen #4 Rainbow Colored Cat #5 Cat Portrait With A Little More Glamour Added #6 Seven Cats Join Hands #7 Yet Another Pretty, Tiny Cat Portrait Tattoo #8 And Whiskers…   #9 A Drawing Of Cat On Leg, With Its Name Tattooed On The Wrist #10 Kitty, Paws, Hearts- In Short, Everything Cute

Every Empath Will Try To Hide These 10 Things From You

Do you suspect that you or someone close to you may be an empath? Empaths are able to make special connections with the people around them. An empath can sense when they are needed. Many times, an empath is the person in your life who is sometimes called “too sensitive”. Empaths are very special and if you have on in your life then you can consider yourself lucky. However, empaths do need to be treated with special care. First, let’s explain what an empath is. Being an empath is notRead More

Every Empath Will Try To Hide These 10 Things From You

3. Introversion Since empaths are constantly in touch with the emotions of the people they are with, they may avoid contact in order to get a break. Spending some time alone means the empath can have some time to take a break and recover from feeling emotionally drained. 4. Connection to Nature If you know someone who has a deep desire to spend time in nature, that person could be an empath. There is nothing like the sense of happiness and peace that humans feel when we’re in a beautifulRead More

25 Signs of Covert Narcissism: A Special Kind of Mind Game

  A covert narcissist is the worst kind of narcissist there is. Like a stealth bomb, you can’t see them coming until they have left their destruction. There are countless articles written on the psychology of narcissism. The reason that it’s so highly researched is that someone who has narcissistic tendencies can do so much damage to the psyche of those around them, seemingly without having any idea of what they’re doing. Masters of manipulation, it’s almost inspiring to see the way they do what they do so flawlessly. ThereRead More