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May, 2018

 

ANXIETY DISORDERS AND MAJOR DEPRESSION ARE LINKED TO NARCISSISTIC ABUSE

The most common targets for a narcissist are people who are empathetic, compassionate and choose to see the best in others. This sensitive type of people will choose to trust and understand the narcissist. And this is what they need to start weaving their web around their good-willing victims. In the process of their flawless manipulation, they will use whatever means necessary to make their victim feel smaller and more dependent on them. They do it by constantly trying to lower their self-confidence and make their victims believe that they are goingRead More


ANXIETY DISORDERS AND MAJOR DEPRESSION ARE LINKED TO NARCISSISTIC ABUSE

Nowadays considered as a disorder, anxiety has got its evolutionary roots back in the earliest beginnings of human evolution. Humans needed it to survive in the harsh and unpredictable environment they lived in. Anxiety nowadays is considered to be an inexplicable feeling of unease, nervousness, and worry. It’s true that we have come too far to be affected by the same conditions which gave rise to the protective role of anxiety for our ancestors. So why and how does it occur now? A lot of literature connects today’s anxiety disordersRead More


“I Love You” From The Perspective Of A Narcissist

To this disenchanted generation, ‘I Love You’ are worn out words. They’re said too much but not enough. They mean different things in different contexts, but they always carry a special significance. Sometimes, the words are said by people who don’t fully grasp their meaning, by those who are completely self-absorbed, people who cannot love anyone other than themselves. We all have encountered such dangerously toxic people in our lives, whose definition of love is control and obsession instead of care and understanding. If you have been unfortunate enough toRead More


27 Survivors Reveal The Sickest, Most Twisted Thing A Narcissist Did To Manipulate Them

Made me believe no one liked me. “During our break up, he told me that none of our mutual friends liked me and that he constantly had to defend me to them when I wasn’t around. After our break up, our mutual friends were reaching out to me with genuine care and compassion, and explaining to me that it was the other way around, and that they hated the way he acts, and that they no longer associate with him.” — Lindsay alled the people he was sleeping with “justRead More


27 Survivors Reveal The Sickest, Most Twisted Thing A Narcissist Did To Manipulate Them

Played mind games with listening and hearing. “He would bait me. I would say something and he would say “What? I didn’t hear you!” so I would talk a little louder. Then he would repeat the same thing. I talked a little louder, then he would put his hands over his ears and say “See, you are always picking on me and bullying me!” He would then walk out and give me the silent treatment.” — Patti “Mine would say “I can’t hear you, you speak too low, speak a littleRead More


27 Survivors Reveal The Sickest, Most Twisted Thing A Narcissist Did To Manipulate Them

We all know that malignant narcissists like to provoke, taunt and destroy people – all with clean hands. But what are some of the sneakiest ways they manipulate and terrorize their victims? I asked over a hundred survivors what the most insidious way a narcissist has abused them and the answers were shocking. Here are just some of the highlights of the sick and twisted things these pathological partners have done:  Lead a double life where he tried to destroy me and the people he had affairs with. “All of his affairs – especiallyRead More


17 Things That Happen When An Empath Loves A Narcissist

There has never been a more toxic union, than the relationship between an empath and a narcissist. Empaths often are misunderstood as being weak, or victims of their kindness. That’s not the case at all. Empaths are strong, resilient individuals who are highly sensitive to the feelings and emotions of others. However, when narcissists enter the picture, “victims” are exactly what empaths become if they don’t know how to protect themselves and create boundaries. Empaths want to heal the world, and can’t stand to see someone in pain. Because of this, they are naturally drawnRead More


17 Things That Happen When An Empath Loves A Narcissist

10. What neither member of the relationship realize, is that even after it ends (which it will), both parties continue to suffer. The narcissist will continue on to other, equally toxic relationships, and pursue various avenues in their life — but they will still be miserable. 11. And the empath will continue experiencing the abuse from a narcissist because it works like a poison in their mind and body. It enters every cell with one purpose — to destroy the reality of their target. 12. After the relationship falls apart, the empathRead More


10 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Mess With An Empath

Don’t try and hide your intentions around an empath – it simply won’t work! Empaths are extremely powerful people, and I wouldn’t recommend that you mess with one. Empaths are excellent at reading body language and they are the best mind detectives! Empaths are born with a gift; they have the ability to feel others feelings. Although this is handy when you need someone to talk to, this isn’t their primary gift. Empaths are experts on human psychology by second nature. This gives them to ability to be able to tell whenRead More


This is why narcissists are so cruel to the people they date

For example, Mahler wrote that if a child’s caretaker is abusive, this can result in a defense mechanism in their psychology called “splitting,” which could help explain why some people grow up with a lack of object constancy — and then become narcissists with the inability to have empathy for others. In this situation, the child needs to feel cared for, even though their parent isn’t supplying them with that, and so they repress the negative aspects of the “object,” the mother, so they can hold onto the positive ones.Read More