3 Differences Between a Narcissist and a Sociopath

HERE ARE 3 MAJOR DIFFERENCES BETWEEN A NARCISSIST AND A SOCIOPATH

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“While sociopaths qualify as narcissists, not all narcissists are sociopaths. What drives them differs.” – Darlene Lancer, LMFT

1. A NARCISSIST HAS AN INFLATED SENSE OF SELF-WORTH OR IMPORTANCE

Whether or not the narcissist’s self-importance is apparent, they believe they are the most important person to walk into a room. They feel that everyone should respect them (usually above all others) and that everything they have to say is worth hearing. Narcissists often talk over people, forcing their narrative into a conversation. What is more, they clearly consider theirs the most important viewpoint.

In their own mind, the narcissist is the only one whose opinion matters. Anyone who dismisses them has simply not been “enlightened” to their truth.

A SOCIOPATH IS MORE LIKELY TO WANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU

Instead of having an inflated sense of self-importance, the sociopath is much more likely to want to talk about you. This is because a sociopath thrives on their ability to manipulate other people. They need to know all of your vulnerabilities in order to manipulate you. In this way, sociopaths can be incredibly charming. They are very good at making themselves seem like they’re interested in what other people have to say.

Often, they will choose to minimize or downplay their own issues or accomplishments as a tactic to appear more concerned about others than themselves.

2. NARCISSISTS EXPERIENCE “NARCISSIST RAGE” OR “NARCISSIST INJURY”

Mark Goulston, M.D., explains that the rage of a narcissist rises due to a lack of admiration from the rest of the world. To the narcissist, Goulston explains, anything less than total admiration and obedience is “an assault” to the narcissist’s ego. When the narcissist feels their sense of self has been challenged, they often experience “narcissist injury,” which causes them to lash out at the people who caused the injury to their sense of self.

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