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11 Weird Signs You Might Be Narcissistic

                                                                                  By CAROLYN STEBER   1. You Have A Superiority Complex If you honestly and truly believe you are better than everyone else, that could just be the result of how you were raised. Or, it could be a sign of NPD. As Klapow says, “Someone with NPD will believe they areRead More

What it’s really like to have Borderline Personality Disorder in the workplace

Around lunchtime on a Wednesday last year I walked out of my local medical centre with a brand new diagnosis: borderline personality disorder. I assumed from that moment on my entire life would change. Every moment would have new context. I’d get new meds, a new therapist. I knew it would be difficult, but deep down there was a hope that everything would make sense now. I had a diagnosis, and a manual for how to live the rest of my life. To my disappointment the awareness of my conditionRead More

If You’re Dealing With A Narcissistic Ex, Read This

By Lindsey for So you are finally divorced from your narcissist, and no longer do you have to endure the day-to-day abuse, the passive aggressive manipulation, or his constant attempts to make you look like the bad person. Or do you? Just because he is your ex, doesn’t mean his behavior ever stops. There will be times you need to communicate with your ex, especially if you must co-parent. But because he is a narcissist, the simple act of communicating seems close to impossible. He may not respond to you at all, orRead More

This is why narcissists are so cruel to the people they date

It’s normal to fight with your significant other, but narcissists can be incredibly cruel and threatening in heated situations. This is because they cannot see you as somebody they love, and someone who has angered them at the same time. Something traumatic could have happened in their early life, meaning they didn’t develop “object constancy.” Narcissists cannot change, so the best thing to do is to leave and protect yourself. We’re all guilty of saying hurtful things in the heat of the moment. Every relationship has its ups and downs,Read More

This is why narcisissists are so cruel to the people they date

According to Shannon Thomas, a therapist and author of the book “Healing from Hidden Abuse,” abusive people can switch between Jeckyll and Hyde so easily because they never take any responsibility for their actions. This is also why they are able to move on so quickly from seemingly relationship-ending arguments, sometimes pretending that they didn’t happen at all. “It’s that lack of empathy and that lack of attachment that they can just go from one place to the next,” she told Business Insider. “If nothing ever sticks to them, ifRead More

8 Things That Happen When You Meet A Nice Guy After A Narcissistic Relationship

Being in a narcissistic relationship is tough. It can be very taxing to care for someone who loves just themselves. It can even be called poisonous to be in such a relationship. Narcissistic people are people who suffer from the Narcissistic personality disorder. They are people who have an overblown opinion of themselves and do not hesitate to talk about their achievements. They also love themselves. Only sadness follows a person who is in a narcissistic relationship because it seems as though all you do doesn’t really affect him. HeRead More

8 Things That Happen When You Meet A Nice Guy After A Narcissistic Relationship

4. He takes corrections and criticisms affably One major thing about narcissistic people is their total inability to accept corrections and criticisms. It’s a no, no in their books and this can get tiring and scary when they begin to get too angry when their wrong doing is pointed out to them. In your new relationship, you find it hard even to tell your partner that he wronged you or did something wrong because you’re afraid of the outcome. However, when you finally ask, he is grateful for pointing outRead More

11 Ways Narcissists Will Try to Manipulate You

It’s vital to be able to recognize when you’re being manipulated because some narcissists know no limits when it comes to harming or destroying other people’s lives. Narcissists are selfish, relentless, and troubled; please read the info below so you can eliminate any narcissists from your life or prevent any from ever entering into it. #1: Third-party “proof.” Narcissists need to feel as though they are always right—or that everyone else believes that they are always right—so they will often present a person or another source that verifies exactly whatRead More

11 Ways Narcissists Will Try to Manipulate You

#5: Victim reversals. Even when a narcissist is victimizing someone else, they have a knack for being able to make that person feel as though they are the ones who are acting improperly or unjustly. When you know you’re saying or doing the right thing in your mind and in your heart, then don’t let a narcissist convince you otherwise. #6: Inappropriateness. Research reveals that “Narcissists do indeed behave in more extroverted and less agreeable ways than non-narcissists, skip class more (among narcissists high in exploitativeness/entitlement only) and use more sexualRead More

Narcissistic Fathers Lead Daughters to Engage in Self-Destructing Behavior

The most prominent struggle for most daughters who have had narcissistic fathers is that they tend to be extremely hard on themselves to the point where their standards are too high. When their self-standards are too high, they will always fail, leading to a struggle with confidence and their sense of identity. This also leads to them engaging in self-sabotaging behaviors. The main reason for all of this is that from a young age, women who had narcissistic fathers lost their sense of self and never were able to correctlyRead More