Narcissistic people are very capable when it comes to taking over somebody’s life. They’ll use anything and everything to make people do what they want and they’ll be the one to get the best of it.
Everybody fights the narcissists in their own way, but strong women manage to fight them to the extent of scaring them away.
This is what strong women do differently:
1.Narcissists are very good at finding nice people. They need nice people to be around them, so they can feel better about themselves. They need nice people to feed their egos.
See, they surround themselves with such people by tricking them into thinking they are the same. The difference is that nice people say only nice things to you when they truly mean it while the narcissist will use nice words just to trick you into being friends with him. He won’t mean any of the nice words he says.
The catch is that strong women are not so naive. They can spot if somebody truly means what he’s saying or if it’s just a trick. Strong women are very aware of how they look and are also aware of their other qualities. The minute they note somebody is ingenue, they kick them out from their lives.
2.Narcissists are good at convincing others that somebody else is/was the problem.
See, they are able to put the blame on somebody else in the blink of an eye. Accepting they did something wrong is never an option, unless they use it as a tool to manipulate you.
The catch is that strong women never allow anybody to use them as a dumping ground. They’ll admit their part of the guilt, but they’ll demand the same from the other side. They won’t ever allow a narcissist to put the blame on them or anybody else in fact, and that’s why narcissists have the tendency to avoid strong women.
3.Narcissists might make many long-term promises to raise the stakes in a relationship and make sure the person they’re dating is highly invested.
See, they lure their victims into believing they have a future together, and that’s when the victim lets down their guard completely. If you’re that victim, you’ll start planning your joint future, and you won’t be aware that the narcissist is using that open window to use you in any and every possible way.
The catch is that strong women don’t let down their guard so easily. They never believe in only words, they always expect other people to take actions that follow their promises. That’s where their conflict with a narcissist arises because, as you might’ve imagined, narcissistic people never keep their promises.