What is it about narcissists that make them so fascinating? Is it their over-exaggerated sense of self-importance or their entitlement and air of superiority? Maybe it’s because there are so many of them and we all know one… or ten.
If you’ve been in a relationship with a narcissist, you try never to be in that situation again. Narcissists are so full of themselves and their needs that they aren’t even aware of the damage that they do. Even their horoscope can’t convince them otherwise.
Narcissists will do whatever they need to do to get what they want, even if it leads to violence. While they may appear charming and warm, they’re actually cold, detached, and are lacking in compassion and empathy.
Some narcissists are fully aware of their narcissism and do nothing about it because they don’t think their narcissistic qualities are a bad thing. They’re not users, they’re merely focused and determined to get what they want out of life. They believe that they’re superior to everyone and if they don’t see you on their same level then you’re probably meant to assist them in their goals.
There’s one thing that narcissists don’t want and that’s a lack of attention. If all eyes aren’t on them, they’ll do what they have to do to get the focus back on them.
Narcissists are always seeking the perfect mate who must be beautiful, brilliant, powerful, and successful and when they find that someone, they hang on tight while at the same time trying to destroy their perfect mate’s power.
When talking to people, narcissists tend to exaggerate their achievements and talents so that they sound too good to be true — which they are. Never take a narcissist at face value or believe what they say, especially if it’s about themselves.
Here are the most narcissistic zodiac signs, ranked from most to least.
1. LEO (July 23 – August 22)
Leos are so full of themselves that’s it’s not hard to see them as narcissists. They honestly believe that the world revolves around them and that they’re justified in doing whatever they need to do to keep it that way. They come off as very confident but are secretly insecure just like a narcissist. Leos practically invented love-bombing, the tactic of showering someone with attention, gifts, texts, and flowers and then when the person is hooked, all that love goes away until they start fearing that the object of their love-bombing is pulling away, then they do it all over again.
Leos will do almost anything to satisfy their desires and they don’t care who gets hurt in the process. If you need to disengage from a narcissistic Leo, they’ll be able to spin it so that they’re the victim and garner more attention for themselves.
2. SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
If a Scorpio is in a good place, they’re not that narcissistic, but watch out if they’ve recently been hurt or betrayed; they become extremely focused on revenge. When a Scorpio is on the warpath, they don’t care who gets hurt and what they have to do to exact their revenge. Payback is more than a b*tch for Scorpio, it can be cold, calculating, and violent. They don’t seem to see how wrong it is to take advantage of others to get what they want. Scorpios have a talent for completely blocking people out and erasing them from their lives.
3. AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
If you accused an Aquarius of being narcissistic, they’d say that you were wrong, that they’re just independent. Well, they can be independent to the point where they don’t think about anything but their own wants. They may want to help people and the earth but not if there are too many feelings involved. Aquarius has the cold and aloof qualities that narcissists do.
They will also take advantage of people for their own goals and sometimes their charity work is merely a way to get attention and followers. They want to inspire because they love that kind of attention. They don’t expect for most people to understand them because they’re better than most people. Aquarians think they know better than you and if they use you for their own goals, then you should feel flattered. And all this makes them one of the most narcissistic zodiac signs.
4. VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
Well, Virgos have at least one narcissistic trait which is that they’re convinced that they’re always the biggest genius in the room. Virgos are full of themselves and have the data to back it up since they love nothing better than researching. Perhaps because Virgos are so smart, they’re very good liars and will lie to get what they want, especially if they’re wanting attention. Narcissists seek perfection — they want the perfect partner, perfect house, perfect job and so do Virgos. Narcissists and Virgos alike can behave in an arrogant or conceited manner.