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Saturday, April 21st, 2018

 

13 Essential Tips if You Are Divorcing a Narcissist

About the narcissist Let’s start with why the narcissist—despite all the real reasons any sensible person would be highly motivated to stay out of court—is very likely to end up in it. 1. He or she is in it to win it. Even though there aren’t real “winners” in divorce—with luck, there’s some equitable splitting of responsibilities and assets—that’s not the narcissist’s point of view. He or she is likely to see himself or herself as a victim, regardless of the facts, and has no intention of meeting in theRead More


13 Essential Tips if You Are Divorcing a Narcissist

4. By engaging you in a court battle, the narcissist is still using you to feel powerful. Narcissists need to be in relationships to self-regulate, and by dragging you through court, he or she will feel a thrilling surge of power and control. If the narcissist simply lets you go, he or she would have to find someone else to fill the need. Unfortunately, this also means that the narcissist doesn’t care how the long the process takes—which is surprising but true. Again, most people want to put the unpleasantness and stress ofRead More


How Empaths Can Survive Life With Moody, Manipulative People

You are not responsible for anyone else’s feelings. Are you an empathic person who feels others’ pain and then takes responsibility for their feelings in an effort to alleviate their pain? Is it hard for you to feel others’ pain without trying to fix them? Often, empathic people become caretakers to try to alleviate others’ pain so they don’t have to feel that pain. And takers are generally very attracted to caretakers in relationships. This is the situation with Tiffany: “My husband lays his feelings at my feet often and in myRead More


How Empaths Can Survive Life With Moody, Manipulative People

The point is to fully accept that when someone is abandoning themselves and stuck in their wounded self, they are not in their rational mind and they are not capable of caring. There is nothing you can say or do to have control over getting them to open and care. The more Tiffany accepts her lack of control over him and the more devoted she is to loving herself rather than taking care of him, the better she will feel. Over time, as her husband gets that pulling on her toRead More


5 Things A Narcissist Does To Keep You From Leaving Them Ever

If you find yourself dating a narcissist, then I don’t need to tell you that it is not going to be easy. They’ll turn on the charm to hide the fact that they’re manipulating you and they’ll take you to hell and back with them.  However, you can escape them and it will be easier if you, know the techniques they are using to prevent you from leaving. Information is the key and if you can recognize certain practices, you can avoid falling victim to them and cut them out. TheseRead More