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September, 2018


Do you have the ‘D-factor’? Study finds psychopaths, narcissists, sadists and others all share a ‘dark core’ of humanity

Study found a link between dark traits and tendency to put own interests first Researchers say these people often seem to take pleasure in hurting others  While the dark traits are all different, they seem to share a single core factor   From sadism to psychopathy and even spitefulness, the traits that show the more sinister sides of humanity all share a common ‘dark core.’ And, if you have one of these tendencies, you just might have some of the others, too. While traits such as egoism might not seem asRead More

Anxiety Disorders Could Be Caused By Being Exposed To Narcissistic Abuse

Perhaps you are in a relationship with somebody that believes they are far superior to you and to everybody around them. Perhaps you are married to somebody that’s “difficult” – they are often critical of you as things are always “your fault,” have an inflated ego, and demand all your attention. Or perhaps your parent runs your life and expects nothing less than excellence from you. If you have a selfish, difficult, and emotionally unavailable loved one and feel like you have less independence and self-confidence, you may be dealingRead More

38 Signs You’re Being Abused By A Narcissist (Watch Out For Number 5!)

  If you’ve ever had the misfortune of being wrapped up with a narcissist, then you already know what one of these horrible human beings are capable of. Since there is no concern for anyone else but themselves, they can prove to be some of the most toxic people that you could ever associate yourself with, especially when it comes to being in love with one of them. Narcissists see others as pawns, essentially. You are able to carry out there demands, not really thinking twice about them and alwaysRead More

38 Signs You’re Being Abused By A Narcissist (Watch Out For Number 5!)

8. You started drinking, using drugs, overeating, or not eating at all to cope with the abuse. A sociopath will leave you feeling as if you were never of their concern to begin with sometimes. They will avoid meeting your wants and needs in order to get what they want in the end game. A sociopath does not care about the way you feel, what you have to say, or show any concern for your physical well being. Their conflicts have now become your conflicts and there is no wayRead More

38 Signs You’re Being Abused By A Narcissist (Watch Out For Number 5!)

26. You stop caring for yourself. You shower less, eat less, sleep more, and only take care of things that are absolutely necessary. 27. You lack joy and can’t get excited about anything. Since the narcissist has made you feel useless, it’s hard to enjoy anything in life now. 28. You feel numb, emotionless as if your soul has been ripped out (because it has). 29. You can’t concentrate and get distracted easily. 30. You feel crazy. You just know there is something wrong with you. 31. The smallest infractionsRead More


  Karen Monahan, the former girlfriend of Democratic Rep. Keith Ellison who has accused him of domestic abuse, on Saturday posted on Facebook several screenshots of messages she allegedly received from the congressman in 2017. “After I realized this situation was narcissist abuse, I told him I now understood the dynamics of the relationship and the various forms of abuse,” Monahan wrote via Facebook. “He would call that bickering when he was called out. But he still left messages like this throughout the whole year of 2017.” Screenshots of messages Monahan postedRead More

5 Warning Signs You’re Dealing With a Narcissist

If you’ve ever known a narcissist, you know that they aren’t as obvious to recognize as you might think. Hopefully, you don’t know them anymore. I don’t even need to explain why– you already know. But if you’ve never known one, it’s critical to be able to spot them quickly. As soon as you meet them, preferably. The last thing you want is to walk down a road, whether friendship or intimately, with someone whose sole purpose for being with you is to drain you of all life– and the life ofRead More

7 Things A Narcissist Will Never Do

Because of their fundamental sense of worthlessness and compensatory grandiosity, narcissists play by different rules than the rest of us. Here is a short list of things healthy people do that you’ll never see a narcissist do. The Narcissist’s Never-Do List 1. Apologize Admitting wrong is uncomfortable for most people, but the give-and-take in relationships at times calls for an acknowledgment of fault. Healthy people usually know when they owe an apology and are willing to give it. Whether we interrupt, fail to deliver on a promise, say something hurtful, or loseRead More

5 Simple Reasons Why Narcissists Won’t Last In Relationships

    Narcissists have a reputation for being very conceited, self-centered, and just plain self-serving. They tend to always be looking out for their own personal self-interests. A narcissist is likely to only ever really be thinking about himself. He won’t be looking out for the needs of other people. He won’t be mindful of the feelings of those around him. He is going to conduct himself in however way he sees fit. He’s going to carry himself the only way he knows how – in ways that benefit him.Read More

The Brutal Truth Behind The Toxic Relationship Between A Narcissist And An Empath

    I’m an empath, and I think narcissists are special. It may seem kind of silly, but the narcissist, the one so focused on how great they are, is actually profoundly wounded. Something in childhood got to them. It unraveled them. It damaged them. And so now they seek validation. But here I am. I’m an empath. I’m a healer. I absorb what other people are feeling it and feel it as if it were my own. My own pain, my own anguish, my own hurt. Narcissists rarely knowRead More