seven signs you’re dating a narcissist, according to a clinical Psychologist
‘When the world is all about you, there is little room left to have genuine and sustained empathy toward others’
Your partner brags seemingly 24/7, always knows the ‘best’ way to do everything and can’t handle criticism. Sound familiar? You may be dating a narcissist.
About six per cent of the population has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), which affects more men than women – 7.7 per cent vs 4.8 per cent, according to research published in The Journal of Clinical Psychiatry.
Dr Gene Beresin, executive director at The Clay Centre for Young Healthy Minds at Massachusetts General Hospital and Dr Forrest Talley, a California-based clinical psychologist have identified warning signs that you may be dating someone with NPD.
An official diagnosis can only be done by a doctor, but here are red flags to look out for:
They only like to talk about themselves
If you’re dating someone extremely self-absorbed, your date night conversation will most likely revolve around his or her achievements, success and interests.
“The narcissist will often appear bored when talking about you or change the subject to focus on them,” Dr Beresin said. “Sometimes they are good listeners, but only when it enhances their own needs and desires.”
They want you to provide them with constant praise
Narcissists always want to be the centre of attention and will expect their partner to acknowledge their achievements, talents and appearance at all times. (Yes, even when you are at a social gathering).
According to Dr Beresin, your relationship may suffer if you don’t dote on him or her.
They may take offence if you show any sign of disapproval, disagree with what they say or if you question how great they are.
They are demeaning towards other people
Egocentrics often obsess over the negative aspects of other people’s lives. Even their close friends and family members may not be spared from the judgment.
Narcissists often think they can do a better job than others, which reinforces the belief that they are always right.
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